My husband has been texting a girl he worked (past tense) with over 2 years ago...all day and all nite.?

He says they are just friends and that she is married and happy and he is not into her.....I just dont understand it! She texts him first thing in the morning, all day and all night. He spends more time lookng at his phone than anythign else all day. I told him I dont like it and it needs to stop, he is putting all his energy and focus into spending time talking with her. I've stopped talking to him, why should I talk to him when he is always talking to her. It always feels like she is the 3rd wheel, she is always with us cuz she is always texting my husband and he is texting her back. Im ready to completely cut myself off from him, he is too preoccupied with this other woman and Im not going to sit around and wait for him to show me some attention. Lets see how he feels when all my attention is taken up with other things that there is no time for him!My husband has been texting a girl he worked (past tense) with over 2 years ago...all day and all nite.?
Sounds like you have a good plan. So, what's your question?
You have every right to ask your husband to focus his attention on you, and not on his phone. This is bad manners for anyone, and even more so for a husband!



While the texting may be innocent and he's completely faithful to you, it's a little out of hand. Talk to your husband first, don't play games, and figure it out like adults.My husband has been texting a girl he worked (past tense) with over 2 years ago...all day and all nite.?
You are wasting your time, he won't even notice you have cut him off he is so preoccupied with this other woman. I think you are the third wheel and you need to confront him to the point of choose between her or me and do it now or we are over.
stand him against an ultimate-to choose that woman or his wife....if u re really important to him and he loves you like a husband should, then he will choose u and even apologize u about his stupid and unrespectable behavior.

if not then u should think if u want to be with this person :)

best wishes ,and good luck)My husband has been texting a girl he worked (past tense) with over 2 years ago...all day and all nite.?
He should keep you fully informed about the subject. It may be he is helping her out of a depression or a trauma and she believes he is the one that could help her. I the same way she should confide in her husband.
It's really nothing....... Hold on, I got another text from an ex-girlfriend, hmmmm interesting. Wait, wait, now lets ne reasonable, honey, put down that frying pan, we are just friends though we text 12 hours a day, I swear.... CLANG!!
Take his phone away, then text the slutty woman to stop it!
unless your husband is a closet f@g, then he is banging her. no guy spends that much time on a chick he isn't banging.
or you could call the phone company and try to stop all text. lol that would show em!!!
Good plan.





Mrs. G2 as always.. awesome answer. Thumbs up.
Sounds like he is having an emotional affair. I wouldn't put up with it either.
Text her m tell her to stop texting ur man
Give him an intimation ok then its her or you Don't be a Doormat ok .
What we have hear is a failure to communicate!
That's the spirit!
samething happen to but what he said wasnt true they were more then friends!!
do that... show him how it feels when you talk to a guy friend, all night and all day.. start going out and dont say anything about where you're going... or just start paying more attention to him and kissing on him when she calls or text and dont let him talk to her you and him will be too busy for that! or you tell him it's her or you.. that he is a grown man not in the 3rd grade and he needs to set boundaries with this 10yr. old little girl.good luck

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